Therapy goals: how to set ones you can achieve

A key part of therapy — whether for depression, anxiety, ADHD, or something else — is a process to create clear, actionable therapy goals. The best goals are objectives that help define what progress looks like to you and give you a roadmap for overcoming challenges, managing symptoms, and improving your overall mental health.

In this article, we explore what therapy goals are and how to create them. We also share examples of achievable goals, offer tips for effective goal-setting, discuss when goals might need adjusting, and examine how setting goals can influence mental health. 

If you’re ready to embark on a journey of self-improvement or seek help with mental health concerns, creating clear therapy goals can be a significant first step forward.

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What are therapy goals?

Therapy goals are specific, actionable objectives that you aim to achieve through therapeutic intervention. They can encompass various aspects of life, including emotional well-being, relationships, personal development, and coping mechanisms. What makes therapy goals unique is their personalized nature, tailored to address your individual needs and concerns so you and your therapist can create a tailored treatment plan for you.

Therapy goal examples

• Someone struggling with anxiety may set a goal to “manage anxiety triggers and achieve a state of emotional calm.”
• An individual dealing with the aftermath of trauma might aim to “process trauma-related emotions and regain a sense of safety.”
• A person experiencing relationship difficulties may strive to “improve communication skills and foster healthier connections with loved ones.”

These goals serve as the compass guiding the therapeutic journey and ensure that each therapy session is purposeful and focused on achieving tangible results.

How are therapy goals set?

Setting therapy goals is a collaborative and dynamic process between the client and the therapist. It involves several key steps:

1. Doing assessment and exploration: At the outset, your therapist will conduct a thorough assessment to understand your mental and emotional state. This involves discussing your concerns, challenges, history, and aspirations. This initial dialogue lays the groundwork for goal setting.
2. Identifying key areas: Together, you and your therapist identify specific areas that require attention. These can be particular symptoms, behavioral patterns, emotional struggles, or life circumstances that the client wants to address.
3. Defining specific goals: Using insights from the assessment, your therapist helps you  formulate goals that are specific, measurable, achievable, relevant, and time-bound (SMART goals). This framework provides clarity and structure, making it easier to track progress.
4. Creating an action plan: Once your goals are established, an action plan is developed. This plan outlines the strategies, interventions, and steps needed to achieve each goal. It can include therapeutic techniques, homework assignments, or lifestyle changes.
5. Ongoing evaluation: Progress toward the goals is regularly reviewed during your therapy sessions. You and your therapist assess what’s working, what’s not, and make adjustments as needed to ensure therapy remains responsive to your evolving needs.

This collaborative approach empowers you to take an active role in your healing process. It gives you a critical sense of ownership and commitment to your therapy goals.

Examples of achievable therapy goals

Therapy goals are as diverse as the individuals who set them. Here are some examples of the types of objectives you might pursue.

1. To better understand emotions and their triggers

Developing emotional intelligence is crucial for mental well-being. A sample SMART goal might look like this:

• Goal: “Enhance my ability to recognize and understand my emotions and identify what triggers them.”
• Action plan: Engage in mindfulness practices, keep an emotion journal, and explore feelings during therapy sessions.
• Outcome: Improved self-awareness, leading to better emotional regulation and reduced emotional reactivity.

2. To use newly learned coping strategies

Building a toolkit of coping mechanisms can help manage stress and anxiety. The goal to do so might look like this:

• Goal: “Implement effective coping strategies to manage stress and reduce anxiety symptoms.”
• Action plan: Learn relaxation techniques, such as deep breathing, progressive muscle relaxation, or cognitive reframing.
• Outcome: Enhanced ability to navigate stressful situations with confidence and composure.

3. To adopt healthier behaviors

Physical health significantly impacts mental health. You may aspire to:

• Goal: “Incorporate regular exercise and balanced nutrition into my daily routine to improve overall well-being.”
• Action plan: Create a realistic fitness plan, consult a nutritionist, and set achievable lifestyle changes.
• Outcome: Increased energy levels, improved mood, and a stronger mind-body connection.

4. To better express emotions, desires, and needs to others

Effective communication fosters healthy relationships and might be achieved with a goal like this:

• Goal: “Improve my communication skills to express my feelings and needs assertively and respectfully.”
• Action plan: Practice active listening, role-play conversations during therapy, and receive feedback on communication styles.
• Outcome: Strengthened relationships and reduced interpersonal conflicts.

5. To confront and heal from past traumas

Addressing unresolved trauma is essential for moving forward. Here’s a sample goal to address trauma.

• Goal: “Process and heal from past traumatic experiences to reduce their impact on my current life.”
• Action plan: Engage in trauma-focused therapies, such as eye movement desensitization and reprocessing (EMDR) or cognitive processing therapy (CPT).
• Outcome: Alleviation of trauma-related symptoms and regained sense of safety and empowerment.

6. To practice self-compassion and enhance self-esteem

Cultivating self-love is foundational for mental health. A  goal to help you learn self-love might look like this:

• Goal: “Develop self-compassion to improve my self-esteem and overall happiness.”
• Action plan: Identify negative self-talk patterns, replace them with positive affirmations, and practice self-care activities.
• Outcome: Increased self-worth and reduced feelings of inadequacy.

7. To improve current relationships

Enhancing relationships can lead to greater life satisfaction and be achieved with this:

• Goal: “Strengthen my relationships by improving trust, empathy, and mutual respect.”
• Action plan: Participate in couples or family therapy, learn conflict resolution skills, and set healthy boundaries.
• Outcome: More fulfilling and supportive relationships.

8. To establish a consistent sleep schedule

Quality sleep is vital for mental and physical health. A goal to  develop better sleep patterns might look like:

• Goal: “Achieve a regular sleep pattern to enhance my mood and cognitive functioning.”
• Action plan: Implement sleep hygiene practices, establish a bedtime routine, and address any sleep disorders or get insomnia treatment.
• Outcome: Improved sleep quality leading to better concentration and emotional stability.

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Tips for setting effective therapy goals

Setting meaningful and attainable therapy goals enhances the likelihood of therapeutic success. Here are some tips to guide your process.

1. Be honest about your capabilities

• Self-assessment: Reflect on your strengths, limitations, and resources.
• Realistic expectations: Set goals that challenge you but are achievable given your current situation.
• Open communication: Share your concerns and capacities with your therapist to align goals appropriately.

2. Make SMART goals

Use the SMART framework to create clear and actionable goals.

• Specific: Define the goal with clarity. What exactly do you want to achieve?
• Measurable: Establish criteria to track progress. How will you know when you’ve achieved the goal?
• Achievable: Ensure the goal is within your abilities. Is it realistic?
• Relevant: Align the goal with your broader values and objectives. Does it matter to you?
• Time-bound: Set a deadline or timeframe. When do you aim to accomplish this goal?

Example: “I will practice deep breathing exercises for 10 minutes every morning for the next 30 days to reduce my anxiety levels.”

3. Create a detailed action plan

• Break down goals: Divide larger goals into smaller, manageable steps.
• Identify resources: Determine what support, tools, or information you need.
• Set milestones: Establish interim targets to celebrate progress along the way.

4. Track your progress

• Regular monitoring: Keep a journal or use apps and report to your therapist to create a record of your efforts and improvements.
• Reflect and adjust: Review what’s working and what’s not. Be willing to modify your approach as needed.
• Celebrate achievements: Acknowledge and reward yourself for reaching milestones.

5. Focus on one goal at a time

• Prioritize: Determine which goal is most urgent or impactful.
• Avoid overwhelm: Concentrating on a single objective prevents feeling stretched too thin.
• Build momentum: Success in 1 area can motivate and energize you to tackle subsequent goals.

Can therapy goals change over time?

Absolutely. Therapy goals aren’t set in stone. As you grow and evolve throughout the therapeutic process, your needs and priorities can shift. You can and should:

• Reassess regularly: Periodically evaluate your goals with your therapist to ensure they’re still relevant.
• Be flexible: Let yourself adjust goals as you have new insights or life changes.
• Communicate openly: Discuss any desire to change goals with your therapist to collaboratively adjust your treatment plan.

Being adaptable will help you ensure that therapy continues to align with your personal journey and gives you ongoing engagement in the process.

How goal setting impacts mental health

Setting and working toward therapy goals can have a profound effect on mental health. It:

• Provides direction: Goals offer a clear path forward, reducing feelings of aimlessness or stagnation.
• Enhances motivation: Working toward meaningful objectives increases your engagement in and commitment to therapy.
• Boosts self-esteem: Achieving goals reinforces your sense of competence and self-efficacy.
• Promotes accountability: Regular goal-setting and tracking encourage personal responsibility for growth.
• Facilitates measurement: Goals give you tangible measurement of progress and evidence of your success.

Research shows that goal-oriented therapy can lead to better outcomes compared to therapy without clear objectives. It empowers individuals to take charge of their mental health and fosters a proactive approach to well-being.

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